TER4JCP: Heaven Tuxedo Review

 

I bought a tuxedo from the Tracee Ellis Ross TER4JCP Collection!

Rarely do I get excited about famous folks.  I think it’s because I was born and raised in Tinseltown and it’s pretty ordinary to see and interact with actors, musicians and the like, while living in LA.  So why get excited when you have famous neighbors? Lol!

However, there are a handful of “these” types that I admire for different reasons.  The actress and comedian, Tracee Ellis Ross, happens to be one of them.  She is amazing at her craft, an activist and smart.  But let me tell y’all…her sense of style is off the charts!

When I caught wind that she was partnering with JCPenney to share a clothing line of her making, I knew I had to check it out!

When her collection dropped in the JCPenney stores November 12th, I had already done my research and knew what items I wanted.  I was stoked by the fact that her pieces were affordable, yet super cute!

For this post, I’m sharing the Heaven Tuxedo Jacket and the Heaven Tuxedo Pants. The jacket is fitted with the classic satin lapels and satin covered buttons at the cuff.  It also has light padding in the shoulders and is double vented in the back.  You might want to go up a size, because the fit is a little snug.  The pants have the classic satin stripe down the side and are wide legged, which compliment my frame.

This suit is perfect for special occasions, and unless something changes, I’ll probably be wearing this baby for New Year’s Eve with a shimmering blouse!

Hope you’re having a fabulous week, lovelies!  Until next time, love and light!

Julie

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Heaven Tuxedo Jacket & Heaven Tuxedo Pants – Tracee Ellis Ross for JCPenney // Plaid Shirt (similar) – Goodwill Industries (old) // Michael Kors Tie (similar) – The Hubbs Closet // Red Shoes – Aldo // Clutch (similar) and Hoop Earrings – Forever 21 // Images by Nichole Alex Photography

Red is my favorite color.

Let me tell you about my love affair with the color red.  It began many moons ago…

My bedroom as a teenager was decorated with beautiful red accents.  I remember it very well.  Our childhood home had just been renovated and now I had a brand new bedroom at the very back of the house. My mother allowed me to decorate my room as I pleased. My windows were adorned with red blinds and red/white eyelet window treatments. The double bed had a beautiful white comforter with a huge satin pillow shaped as big red lips smack dead in the middle. In the morning, as the sun hit the blinds, my room’s lighting had a soft red hue.

 

The list goes on.  I had a red high school prom dress, red first vehicle (Volkswagen Rabbit), red bridesmaids dresses.

Studies show that colors have a very significant effect on us both psychologically, and even physiologically! Certain colors can change our state of mind, or even affect our physical state. Is that crazy or what?

The crimson colored hue is the most eye-catching and exciting color in the entire spectrum. Red is bold and powerful. It demands attention. But did you know that the color red actually increases your heart rate?

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Red is perfect for accent colors; be it your MAC Ruby Woo lipstick, leather coat, power suit, LRD (little red dress), calls to action, or anywhere you want to make your presence more palpable. Red says, CONFIDENCE.

So for your holiday celebrations, I hope you put on a little red!

Until next time, love and light!

Julie

 

Soft Surroundings: Stylish Paradox Gift Picks for 2017

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I know everyone had a great Thanksgiving, right?  My goal is to treat everyday like it is Thanksgiving; with gratitude for God’s blessings.

We’ve got another holiday around the corner, so you know what that means…gift giving!!! And I believe accessories are an outfits best friend!

I’ve joined forces with Soft Surroundings to share two beautiful gift items that you could give your Mom, BFF, sister, colleague, or even your client!

The Fresca Necklace Multi-textured, whimsical, fresh and fun.  This piece is made of glass, beads and silky bows.  So unique!

The Centenario CuffShiny, gold.  This piece is handmade by artisans with hammered metal.

Soft Surroundings is currently offering a $25 gift card with a $150 purchase.  Check out the website, it has soooo many great things!

You’ll be hearing from me soon, lovelies…and more consistently!

Love y’all!

Julie

 

 

 

 

Lily Silk: Fine, Feminine and Fabulous in the Fall

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Hey beautiful people!

I’m overjoyed to have the next five days away from the 8 to 5, for the Thanksgiving holiday.  I’m also to happy to share with you this feminine and fabulous, silk kimono from Lily Silk.

I’ve partnered with Lily Silk to highlight their high end “mulberry silk”, that is known for its luxury and comfort.  And don’t be confused by the color or design, as we are deep into the fall months of the year! Note; it was 90 degrees today in Los Angeles!  So, you can see that seasons really don’t matter to me!  #iwearwhatiwant

 

In conjunction with Black Friday, Stylish Paradox readers receive a 16% off coupon, by using the code “stylishpara16” at checkout!  Sales include: 25% off for 1 piece, 35% off for 2 pieces, and 45% off for 3 pieces.

With that said, enjoy your day and until next time,

Love and light!

Julie

 

 

 

My Fluttering Heart and Shoulders! Who What Wear Does It Again

I guess you could say, I pretty much adore everything from the Who What Wear Collection.  My heart (and shoulders) are fluttering!

Seriously, this collection is one of the reasons I try to stay out of Target because it’s pretty much a wrap if I walk through their doors!  And I should let you know, the prices are affordable.

This Flutter Shoulder Dress that’s getting a lot of wear from me right now, is everything! So feminine, floral and perfect for the Cali fall weather.

So, you’ve been warned.  Once you start with this line, you’ll be hooked!  Believe me.

Until next time, love and light!

Julie

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Flutter Shoulder Dress – Who What Wear Collection // Hardy Hand Waxed Boots – Leon Max Official // Similar Tote Bag – BCBG // Similar Earrings – J. Crew // Zebrawood & Maple Watch – JORD //Photography by Nichole Alex

Italy + Artisan = THE “ITALISAN” HANDBAG

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Mama’s got a brand new bag, and it is absolutely stunning!

I just had to use a few words from rhythm and blues singer, James Brown to describe my fabulous new handbag from Italisan!  There are no embellishments or exaggeration here, when I say this bag takes my breath away.

Made in Italy for the refined American woman, The Lucia Clutch comes in three colors: Satin Black, Pearl White and my color of choice, Sunset Coral.

Beautifully crafted, flowers adorn the bag in 3D fashion.  She is even more lovely in person.

Lucia was a my favorite outfit accessory during my annual birthday dinner with the Hubbs!

Stylish Paradox readers get free shipping by using “julie10” at checkout.

Until next time, love and light!

Julie

 

 

 

Misook Looks: Business Wear with Flair

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Business attire doesn’t have to be boring.  And here’s a style tip, remember to wear it with flair!

I recently partnered with Misook, a retailer that offers timeless and elegant high quality garments to women.  Known around the world for their “silky knit”, the retailer keeps it sophisticated with great details.

When I spotted their boot skirt with studs and high neck blouse, I couldn’t resist as the combination offered an edgy and conservative look in one.  So, you might ask, how do the two styles co-exist?

Here are just 5 very easy ways:

  1. Always wear a statement item (fun shoe, scarf, necklace, handbag).
  2. Get glammed out with bold red lips, funky oxfords or high heels.
  3. Pair your conservative pieces with a leather jacket.
  4. Play with textures and mix patterns, i.e., houndstooth patterned item with ribbed item.
  5. Throw on an animal print scarf or shoe with your basic business suit.

Don’t be afraid to spice up your office attire!  I hope you like the way I styled the Misook looks.

Until next time, love and light!

Julie

Use code MSK4091 at checkout to purchase Misook garments.

 

 

 

ANOTHER TRIP AROUND THE SUN: Advice to My Younger Self

 

Today marks my 53rd trip around the sun, and for that, I am grateful! I take the gift and celebration of life to heart because so many individual have lives that are cut short. I don’t think I took the celebration of life seriously until my sister passed away at the age of 37.

We often live life with regrets, and my goal is to make sure I don’t have any at the end of this journey.

So, if you had the opportunity to give advice to your younger self, what would you, tell you?

Here’s what I would tell myself:

  1. Trust God. He always comes through. He is sooooo CLUTCH.
  2. Ask for what you want in life. All they can do is tell you no. And if no is the answer, NEXT!
  3. Trust your instincts, they’re usually right.
  4. When someone shows you who they are, believe it.
  5. Be patient. Choose wisely.
  6. Don’t allow anyone or anything to control your life.
  7. Commit random acts of kindness daily.
  8. Forgive those who have hurt you. It’s good for your soul.
  9. Don’t try to change who you are to make someone else feel comfortable. The real you is going to surface sooner or later. Trust.
  10. Love harder, laugh harder, dance harder!

I’d love to hear from you in the comments below, what advice would you give to your younger self?

Now I’m off to continue my birthday celebration with the Hubbs!

Love and light, y’all! Be blessed!

Julie

TOAST OF LIFE: The Adult Sleepover

Every year, for the past 6 years I’ve hosted a birthday luncheon with my favorite girls. They are my day ones, ride or dies, road dawgs, bffs, sisters; you know – friends I can count on! This year I did something a little different and hosted an adult sleepover!

The gathering consisted of 8 of my favorite girlfriends, each of whom I’ve known ranging from 43 to 3 years. I’ve connected with each of them on a spiritual level and feel so blessed to have them in my life.

Planning began with being lucky enough to secure the presidential suite at a local hotel. This night would be epic and fitting for royalty. I was so ready for pre-birthday festivities with my girls, who are all Queens!

As the day approached there were a few glitches that tried to derail the fun. On the day of, the bakery and eatery I hired 2 weeks previously, forgot I placed orders! They were prepaid, and still didn’t have my name in their databases. I ended up having to pick up my cake later than anticipated and the food arrived 1-1/2 hour late; after guests had begun to arrive. Negativity could not and would not prevail.

In the end, we feasted on a great tasting Red Velvet cake (my fave!) and I received over $75 in vouchers from a great restaurant!

The signature drink for the evening was appropriately named, “Toast of Life: The Punch”.  We wore pink and black pajamas, “yassss queen” socks and blinged out tiaras.

The night was slated to be filled with various activities like movies, Twister, karaoke, Girls Night Out Table Topics and possibly a dance contest. But by the middle of the evening, it was clear that time spent with special people doesn’t need an agenda.

We spent the evening laughing, eating, dancing, drinking and crying with laughter even more! Most of the time we played “catch up”.

After this celebration, I feel pressured to make next year’s Toast to Life even better, lol!

I am filled with gratitude and am so thankful to have each of these women in my life.

Until next time, love and light!

Julie

The Komen Foundation and Citadel Outlet Partners in PINK SAVES: A Fashion Show for Breast Cancer Survivors and Their Angels


October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month and holds so much significance for me. Not only did I work for a non-profit organization dedicated to the fight against cancer for over 24 years, but my dearest friend and sister Donna, succumbed to the disease at age 37.  Although her diagnosis was over 19 years ago, I clearly remember getting that call from her after she discovered a large, hard lump in her breast.  I told her, “you’re too young, it couldn’t be breast cancer.”   I’ll never recover from the loss.  But, I can honor her memory by getting the word out to others about the importance of taking care of your “girls”.

Since that time, so much has changed in the fight against breast cancer. Women are now surviving the disease at a higher rate and being more proactive about their breast self examinations, and annual mammograms.

So when I was invited to attend the Pink Saves Fashion show being hosted by the Citadel Outlets and the Susan G. Komen Foundation, I couldn’t say no!

What really made this show special was that instead of using regular models, breast cancer survivors and the angels who supported them during their fight, ripped the runway together.

The mistress of ceremonies for the evening was actress, Garcelle Beauvais.  Guests were also serenaded during the finale by singer, Melissa Manchester. Each survivor was briefly interviewed by the show’s host, and each shared their years of survivorship, ranging from 1 to 17 years.

Ladies, don’t forget your monthly self-examinations and annual mammograms!  It could mean your life.  Thank you to the Citadel Outlets and the Susan G. Komen Foundation for inviting me to this inaugural event.

To find out about other Pink Saves activities during the month of October, click here.

Until next time, love and light!

 

This post honors the memory of my late sister, Donna Yvette Brewster

1961-1999

And my eldest sister, who beat cancer’s tush, Beverly Shea Brewster

YOU ARE MY SHEROS!

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